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  1. Thanks, I read the link! I still have confusion about where the virus sheds...I get nerve pain in my thighs and butt cheeks as prodrome symptoms. I understand that you can get OBs anywhere in the "boxer shorts area". The virus does not shed through closed (meaning not a mucous membrane or a cut) skin right? Is there a chance of the virus asymptomatically shedding through my upper thigh skin and butt cheeks? Should I be worried about 'hands with cuts' touching me there or hands touching me in those areas and then touching their own genitals? Thank you so much for your help and patience. --Worry energy almost depleted..
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  2. Thank you for the kind words! So I ended up not disclosing that night, but instead disclosed the next day via text. I know some people may say it’s not the best way to do it but I find myself better at explaining thing in writing rather than saying it in person. He was very understanding and said he was so sorry this happened to me. He asked me a few questions and then continued on with our normal conversation. He’s coming over for dinner tonight so I’m not sure if more will be brought up then. All I can say is that whether or not this works out I am soooo proud of myself for being able to tell him. I am hoping this shows him just how open and honest of a person I am.
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  3. I haven’t personally been in the situation yet of having casual sex with herpes, but when I found out I had it, one of my really good friends put me in touch with her friend who has it as well. She told me that at first she thought casual sex was over for her but in her experience no one was ever turned off by it when she disclosed. There was 1 person in the grand scheme of things who refused after that but she has no regrets to this day because he was an asshole anyways so it saved her from going through with that. That’s why people say it can help weed out the undesirables I guess. But really she said it didn’t change her ability to do that, it was an extra step to take beforehand but it wasn’t a deterrent for 99% of the people she went on to sleep with after that. I know everyone’s experience is different with this and there may be people here who would tell you they had a harder time of it, but I would look up some info on how ppl successfully disclosed. I do think it’s important though to be upfront and honest with people even if it’s a one night stand.
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  4. Just putting this out there: You do not have to have casual sex to be "normal".
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