My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now we have been using protection and I also have been taking the anti-viral medication. I have not had any outbreaks since we have been together, now we are at a point in our relationship that he is just hates using condoms and he feel like he can't give me oral sex, it's been about 3 months now and no sex, for the first time since I've have this virus I am feeling rejected by my own boyfriend. Yes he has been tested everything came out negative, I have introduce him to this site and he said he is also willing to go to a support group with me. I just don't want to lose him over this.