tmack

Yes, most men are not understanding. My "spouse" still does not think he has it after 20 years, even with the OBs on his genitals! Funny thing is that I found out that he is a serial cheater who can't keep an erection for too long with a condom on, so I can imagine how many women he has given it to. I stayed with him out of fear that no one else would want me with this disease and he treated me like nothing. I am really glad you find someone who is so understanding and supportive.

Thank you. I have recently started on suppressive therapy of 800 g/gm of apo-aciclovir (or something like that) per day. Google can be your worst enemy sometimes and makes you think that you are contagious all the time. It is just the asymptomatic shedding that has me worried because I am aware of my triggers and outbreaks. I will see how it goes.

I want to hear success stories of not transmitting. I want to have a baby, so I plan on going condomless. Thoughts?

How do you manage to not pass it to your H- partner? Do you always use a condom? We want to have a baby but dont want to transmit it.