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Kimmysue

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  1. I had to tell 3 people about it All of which were quite understanding and I think just thankful I told them I tried dating but have been rejected twice The only thing I can suggest is research yourself, give them tested websites and understand you're asking a lot from them, as even with protection you can still pass it and try to understand if they don't wish to continue
  2. I felt the same as kaybee I found out in May this year and I'm still not totally mentally happy and I doubt I will ever be. I feel why should I tell every partner and constantly get rejected when that person who gave it to me, chose not to tell me. And took MY decision away from me. There is no social stigma to this disease - it it was it is and probably every person you try and date will reject you. So you may as well get used to it! I'd had a pretty shit year to start with - NYE found out new bf was going behind my back with his ex Then another guy stopped dating me after a day as he felt second best I then got back with an ex and we fought and split I thought I'd then met a 'really nice guy' who I think gave me the herpes and also a baby. I wasn't aware of the disease at this point and chose a termination as he left me when he found out and I had uni and travelling booked. I then found out about herpes and have honestly never felt that low I was grieving for an abortion, then starting to regret my decision as whose going to want me now??? I had an awful time at work and my ex left - my whole world just crashed down before my eyes I felt like killing myself I was sleeping two hours if at all a night and just didn't want to be here. I still don't although i don't feel suicidal anymore. I told my ex and he was calm - but is refusing to get tested (denial) every guy I've met has said no they don't wish to continue- please tell me when this is meant to get better??? I also feel cheated. People with cold sores on their face don't walk around telling every body before they kiss someone - yet I have to just because it's on my vagina??? Also the constant conflicting advice - if it's not there you can't spread - but on here you say you can I literally had one very small cut - I thought I'd nicked myself with a razor that's how small it was The GUM clinic apparently don't test unless you ask and don't see it as a big deal??! So you ask yourself why it's on such a rise ?? I feel incredibly lost and really not looking forward to the 'rest' of my life - most likely alone and childless but I would really like someone to talk to Sorry for the essay but I'm pretty much alone
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