GeminiiGoddess

Thank you. I really appreciate it. I will take your advise and put it to good use.

@thissuckswahhh your story and mine is super similar. I am constantly going through an OB since May off and on and no matter what I do its like its getting worse. I've been contemplating about taking my life because of it. I don't know if its my diet that is triggering the OBs or what. Im on supressive therapy and its like its not working. I guess I really need someone to talk to about it, because Im feeling super alone.

I'm going through the same thing, except I have outbreaks, and don't notice them until the sores are there. I don't have any of the common symptoms and I get the occasional itch between my vag and butt crack, but nothing else. I'm taking valtrex and notice that the symptoms go away in about a few days, but then it comes right back. I was going to talk to my doctor about maybe prescribing another antiviral. But let me know what works for you...

Probably less than 10%, but if there wasn't a current OB, I think you should be fine!

So, I have been dealing with HSV2 for a few months now. The thing that stresses me out the most about it, is that I don't even know when I am having an OB until I feel the painful sores. So to rewind a bit, I noticed one sore, but then because I was fairly new to it all, I guess it spread and got worse. So I had them on the outward parts of my labias, on the right side of my butt and now I noticed I had an OB on my anus (Sorry for the details). I'm not understanding this whole process, I don't have the regular symptoms such as tingling, fever, throbbing pains, or any of such. I've only noticed when I had a bad case of the itch. Now after I think about it all, its so frustrating because I wish I knew the signs before the OB starts. I am on Valtrex, and will be on supressive therapy. If anyone could give me some insight and maybe a direction of how I can be on top of this. I've constantly had minor OBs since being officially diagnosed in May 2018. Lately I know that stress and poor diet triggers it. But what if you dont have any of the "normal symptoms"?

I take them daily. If i do have sex. I make sure it’s protected. Female and male condoms help. It takes away some sensation but it’s a lower risk of passing the infection. Just don’t have sex while having an OB

It usually takes a few weeks for the lesions to heal, depending if they are infected. I would put witch hazel and maybe some hydrocortizine or neosporin for the sores. It should help. I am 25 and I was recently diagnosed. So it would be safe to say who ever you have had intercourse with could of had it and not know. Your pregnancy will be fine. as long as you dont have an OB by the time you deliver your baby, the child will be healthy. Doctors try to avoid vaginal delivery though. I would talk to your doctor about the options you may have. I hope this helps.

Its a choice if you want to take daily virals. I personally only take them when I have an OB. Too much valtrex lowers your immunity, so if you do decide to take daily virals be sure to take a multivitamin, vitamin c and lysine. Make sure you're drinking enough water as well

remember that you're not alone. It is a hard pill to swallow and doesn't have a pleasant taste, but sometimes life just happens in ways we don't understand. Remember that you are still worth it. Your value doesn't change. Now you just have to make some adjustments. Don't be scared! First and foremost, if you need additional support feel free to contact me. I can tell you with time.. it heals all wounds. You will be able to date and have a normal life. It does has it days, when it sucks, and you don't want to pass the disease around. The only thing I can truly tell you that I wish someone could of told me.. is to not beat yourself up. You are your worst critic. Beating yourself isn't getting you nowhere. You have to accept it, and try to move on from it. Meaning try to love yourself the same, even though part of you isnt the same. Your worth is the same. Your current situation isnt your final destination. Maybe you should take this time and really focus on you despite the urges. Speak with your doctor about daily virals, change your diet, exercise more often. I found that taking daily vitamins, Vitamin C, lysine helps. Drink plenty of water with a HIGH PH such as esentia or Pure diamond And ALWAYS practice SAFE SEX. Be the change you want to see.

I would google that on the CDC. Honestly, from my knowledge you can transmit the virus even through protected intercourse. (Don't hold me to this) but if she is taking her virals, vitamins, and making sure she isnt having an OB, i think the chances are slim.. But I would research more. Hope this helps!

ScaredGirl89, Sometimes OB's happen due to poor diet, lack of exercise, sleep, a lot of stress and anixety. Also, your menstrual cycle has a part to play in it as well. How is your diet? Are you taking vitamins? If not, a multivitamin, vitamin C, and lysine helps a lot. Also try soaking in an Aloe Vera and Epsom salt bath. It will help with the sores. It takes your body a minute to get use to the Valtrex going into your symptom. I also too was diagnosed in May with HSV2, and it was a hard pill to swallow. Also YOU'RE NOT A TOTAL LOSS. If you allow poison to intoxicate your mind, than your outlook and perception of everything will be toxic. I recommend you speaking to your doctor about your dosage. I know when I have an OB right before the itching starts, or I see a sore about to come, I take one 500mg valtrex for about 3 days until it goes away. I also DRINK DRINK DRINK WATER. Like alkaline water with a high PH such as esentia or pure diamond. The toxins in your body can also induce a OB. The blisters heal on their own, try putting Dr. Atkins witch hazel and some vaseline or neosporin. It should help heal it. Once a day for a few days. Hopefully this answers all your questions. P.S. Try not to stress, just breathe and relax (Easier said than done I know, but it helps)

Of course, that's what I am here for. I understand what you're going through. I am actually going through the same thing. Part of me just kind of remember my situation (herpes diagnosis), but than I later realize that its who I am. It is part of me. I believe that I want to be the change I want to see in myself and others. I believe that it does get worse before it can get better. I know lack of sleep, stress, poor diet, and lack of exercise can induce outbreaks. I was recently diagnosed this year, and I was devastated. As a single mother and a young college student, I felt as if I was alone. That no one could ever love me the same because of this. But I had to get those thoughts out my mind because if you allow your mind to be poisoned, your entire outlook of life will be also. I'm glad my words helped you. If you would like to chat more, need someone to talk to, or just vent. You have a friend with me. I'll inbox you my number!!!!

I really appreciate your words of positivity and optimism. It is something that I needed to hear, that I haven't had in awhile. Yes life and everything in it is all a process. I keep telling myself to be the change I want to see over and over and over again until I am that change.

Don't be scared! First and foremost, if you need additional support feel free to contact me. My situation is somewhat similar to yours and I feel for you. I can tell you with time.. it heals all wounds. You will be able to date and have a normal life. It does has it days, when it sucks, and you don't want to pass the disease around. The only thing I can truly tell you that I wish someone could of told me.. is to not beat yourself up. You are your worst critic. Beating yourself isn't getting you nowhere. You have to accept it, and try to move on from it. Meaning try to love yourself the same, even though part of you isnt the same. Your worth is the same. Your current situation isnt your final destination. Maybe you should take this time and really focus on you despite the urges. Speak with your doctor about daily virals, change your diet, exercise more often. I found that taking daily vitamins, Vitamin C, lysine helos. And ALWAYS practice SAFE SEX. Be the change you want to see. I hope this helps!

Honestly, this has been a journey for me. I was recently diagnosed with HSV2 and I have been dealing with it. At first, I was in-denial and I didn't want to accept that this...happened to me. So far, I haven't been really stressed as much as I should be. (Single parent, full time college student, unemployed.. the list goes on) But I've been feeling lately that I am losing myself, and not just physically. I feel as if I'm losing control of what could of been to this is my reality. Having HSV2 reminded me of all the mistakes I've made. I asked myself, how did I get myself in this position in the first place? Why wasn't I more careful? I started to blame myself. I started this because I knew what I was doing, and just blew it off. When I look in the mirror at times, I don't see the woman with purpose. I see shame and another statistic. I don't see the beauty in this. How could someone go around infecting others and not have a sentiment in the world to care? I personally, don't want to spread this nor give it to anyone. My sex life, isn't a life. I just feel as moving on and trying to stay focus on the ultimate goal is best. I guess I just had to let a lot of this off my chest, since I really am alone. I faced my entire life as such, and I guess I'm use to it. The only positive thing I can say about this entire thing is that this is a true wake up call. This has opened up my eyes in a different perspective and help me realized another that there is another chapter in my #BookofLife. Thanks for listening!