My bf and I (we are both positive for HSV 2 genitally), I am on suppresive therapy (have been since my primary and only outbreak Feb 2017), he is not, but has never had an outbreak; we met up with a friend over the weekend for a little debauchery. My question is, if I was performing oral sex on him, and then she and I were kissing afterward, what is the likelihood of a transfer of his HSV 2 orally through me to her orally. She is concerned that she could end up with an oral presentation of HSV 2, that would have transferred via my saliva. Neither the bf, nor I are positive for HSV 1. I've read that HSV 2 is rarely transferred to an oral outbreak in immunocompromised people, but even that information is related to the recipient performing oral sex directly on the positive genital region, I can't find anything that provides answers for this instance of a third party being infected by kissing someone that had performed oral sex on someone else.
Thank you for any information, or even direction in locating a possible answer.