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Well if you did not use protection I think the chances are high. If you need to vent feel free to message me.

I read online that if you mix a little bit of coconut oil and tea tree oil and wait for it to become solid that you could use this to help with the pain down there. I couldn't sleep either so I went to my local pharmacy and I bought a sleeping medication that contained no alcohol and that doesn't have any addicting ingredients. I AM NOT A DR. so you might want to ask a doctor if it's safe for you to try these.

Thanks for writing down your journey. I have been through ups and downs since I found out about having H. I also have the fear of shaving. I fear intimacy and I rather not anymore cause that outbreak I had scared the Crap out of me. I found out for me that going to YouTube channels and watching funny things has helped me. There are times at work when I think about this but I try to distract my mind. I just want to tell you and anybody reading this that we have to remember that we only have 1 life here on earth not 2. This virus is horrible but we have 1 life here on earth. This virus will come and go but we have the opportunity to still wake up and carry on with our days and that's a blessing. I think for me the worst that can happen is one of my family members passing away. I rather go through this physical pain that comes and goes than to have to deal with one of my loved ones passing away. Unfortunately we all will pass away so right now we should enjoy and appreciate the people that loves us and we should learn to love ourselves more.

You can message me if you need to vent.

I am happy to read that you were man enough to tell your gf of your results and that you even called your previous sexual partners so they could get checked. It speaks volumes. I wish more women and men could let their sexual partners know.

I had a positive experience with the obgyn that gave me my results. I cried my eyes out and she was being kind and she genuinely seemed like she wanted to help me. She said "I am sorry you are going through this". She told me that she wanted me to take acyclovir right away so that I could get out of that physical pain as well.

I found out about my h results positive about almost 2 months ago. I can relate to hoping it's all a bad nightmare. There are days when I think about the day I found out and the outbreak I had and I feel upset, hopeless, like pure shit. Then there are other days when I totally forget this even happened to me. I try to distract my mind from it as much as possible. I also plan on being alone forever maybe and I am only 27 but I just think I gotta live with this. I do focus on my health now. I really believe that it is time for me to love myself and be healthier. If you ever need to just let it out by chatting about this you can message me. Anybody that needs to vent and is reading this just message me. I didn't have the opportunity to vent much but when I did, I did it with just three people and they were very supportive.

Thank you. You are right.

I just want to know if anyone knows of a website that is searching for the cure of herpes? Or a website that shows the latest news of new discoveries of this virus??? I just want to know if herpes can ever be cured!!!....

If you need someone to talk to. Feel free to message me.

I recently just found out a month ago. If you need someone to chat with to let it out ...here I am.

After my first outbreak I had nerve pain up to 1 week and a half after the outbreak. I asked my doctor and the Dr. Told me that it was normal to have that after the first outbreak. You might want to ask your dr.?

Truth is you never know if the person you tell will end up saying something or not. I would listen to my gut and not say anything unless things get very serious.

I was just diagnosed last week, to be honest I kinda do accept it and then I don't. I accept it because the OB was there and if I tried to ignore it and not accept it I wouldn't be taking care of myself to relieve the pain. Yet I don't fully accept it still because in my mind I just wish this was all a bad nightmare and the results were wrong but the OB was there and it was painful. I am choosing to move forward because I have family to live for and I have many goals. I was at school for 4 years and when my teachers finally told me that I was ready to graduate (which I did last week) that same week I had my outbreak and the Dr. had told me that it was probably H. I felt like the Devil came to snatch my happiness from my hands. I then knew I was not going to let this take my happiness. I worked hard for 4 years and the OB including this virus was not taking my happiness away. I was going through discomfort but I took my medicine and I put a smile on my face on my graduation day.

I would like to meet someone to chat with. I am new here and I am recently diagnosed. I don't care if you are a female or a male. I just want someone to listen and I want to do the same for someone else.