Update : We never engaged in any type of sexual activity, I would never do that to someone because I know how it feel to not have the option of accepting or denying the risk . After the initial shock and anger he had his main thing was why I didn’t tell him sooner before we both got in so deep. Right now, he’s trying to understand everything about it , I’m answering all of his questions giving him the facts about it. So, we’ll see how it goes.