GirlNeedingAdvice

Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and he just informed me last night that he contracted Herpes 7 years ago. He asked if I had any questions, but not being knowledgeable about Herpes I couldn't think of what to ask. I'm trying to do as much research as possible so that I can know what I should ask him in a later conversation. Is there anything in particular you recommend that I ask? I know Herpes is relatively common, but the fear of getting it really scares me. Despite our never having had sex, our relationship is getting pretty serious in that I think it has potential for the future and I don't want my fear to cause me to push him away and jeopardize the relationship. However, at least at this moment,I don't plan to have sex until I find out he is the person I plan to spend the rest of my life with. Is living with Herpes very difficult if you are on medication? How many outbreaks do most people get if on medication and is it incredibly painful? Are the pictures online just the worst case scenarios or is that common of most outbreaks? I'm sorry that my message is all over the place. I couldn't sleep at all last night and am trying to process everything. Thanks in advance for any and all advice!