NewHere2

I have a few questions about HSV-2 and was hoping to get some answers and advice. Long story but there is a gal who is very special to me that I've know for some time. We just started dating after she ended a relationship and she just got tested for STDs. She came back positive for HSV-2. She and I have not been physically involved and when she got the results, she told me I needed to find someone else to date. She felt horrible, scarred and confused as to where it came from. I told her I did not want to cut things off, rather I wanted to get more information. Anyway, her antibody levels were very low and she's never had symptoms. Considering how common this is, I may have it as well and I plan to get tested asap. Questions are...1 since she's never had symptoms and her levels were low, is it likely she has a "mild" case, if there is such a thing, and that if I got HSV-2 from her, would I be likely to have a mild case as well?, 2 seems like even with condom use, I would likely get infected eventually because of the way this spreads. Is that correct?, 3 is a person with HSV-2 always "contagious" even without symptoms and even without a current outbreak? Thanks for any advice.