Yeah I hear u... frankly for me I don't know what else to do... I think it's quite possible that it's easier for women to date with HSV-1 or HSV-2 than it is for men... I mean my ex who has HSV-1 who gave it to me, from what I hear out on the streets she's having no problem finding dates and what not... I think men tend to be a little more cavalier about it and willing to take the chance then women are Imo