HealthOCD

I was married for 10 years and am recently single. It had been 11 months since I last slept with my husband. August 1-2 I had unprotected vaginal intercourse approx. 4 times with a new partner. He had no visible sores and said he was free of STIs. August 25-26 I had unprotected vaginal intercourse approx. 6 times with a new (different) partner. He had no visible sores and said he was free of STIs. The guilt and panic set in. My vagina felt itchy and irritated. I have recurrent bacterial vaginosis and felt like an episode was coming on prior to this last encounter. So perhaps it was that? I have seen no lesions or sores. Vaginal irritation has subsided but my vaginal opening and urethra feel slightly irritated after urinating. I saw my doctor yesterday (12 days after exposure) and she saw no sores/lesion externally or on my cervix. She took a culture and will be running other tests. Urine was negative for UTI. I woke up yesterday with a minor sore throat, which is now gone. I did not perform oral sex on either partner so it shouldn’t be related, right? I feel sick with worry which I know can exacerbate symptoms becomes I become hyper aware of every sensation in my body and I know I manifest symptoms. I now feel like every inch of my skin is sensitive. I suffer from anxiety and thought I had HIV for years despite me have the most minute chance of exposure; I google any pain and have been convinced I have various terminal illnesses. I feel like HSV has become my new obsession. I’m having a hard time balancing my real risk with OCD tendencies. I feel like I’m spinning. What was my risk? Today is day 13, am I out of the woods?