@Anonymous88 i did think that but it does look like a sore and i do feel a little tingly how likely is transmission in this scenario i know u cant say for sure is a minute enough contact for transmission im not sure if he would have had direct contact with it as its in a slightly awkward place like below opening toward peri anal areaa im having craxy anxiety over this and hes just told me he has a headache so of course im thinking the worst this happened Thursday night and Friday morning so 2 days ago, also thanks for the replies its much appreciated