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sweetlove884 last won the day on January 3 2019

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  1. The sore was on my mouth I've never had a genital sore. Ok. I missed that sorry. 💜
  2. I have both types and transmitted HSV1 through oral to his genitals. I didn't have a sore at the time, but I got one a week later. I transmitted HSV2 to another person through unprotected vaginal sex. @Notgoingthere. I would suggest always using a condom for oral because of what happened to me.
  3. Well, dammit. I think my partner is willing, but I don't know if I feel good exposing him to risk. He's so young and I'm so old. I don't want to hurt him. 😞 ive already transmitted to two people before I knew. I feel like I have a poison mouth and you know what.
  4. Hi, I test positive for both 1 & 2, but have never had a genital outbreak. Would I still shed and have a chance of transmitting with condom use?
  5. I don't think I would be upset with him. I always expect rejection and if I don't get it, I'm happily surprised
  6. I've never had either of those issues. I've had it for 38 years
  7. I was diagnosed with both type 1 & 2 a few months ago, but mine was not recently acquired. Around the same time I discovered I have multinodular goiters on my thyroid. My doctor didn't mention a connection. I am in the common age range of getting them, plus several relatives have thyroid issues.
  8. Breakups are hard. Give yourself a little time. I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Hugs.
  9. Yes I see what you're saying, but I don't have all that time to invest. It's just not possible for me. And on the apps, matches are plentiful, so it works. If I only had a few prospects, my method wouldn't be ideal.
  10. I've experimented a bit on regular dating apps. I posted a thread here about my experience. My method was to disclose quickly after matching. That way I wasn't emotionally invested in the outcome. Bottom line--about 1/6 of my matches hung around. Some simply disappeared, but the remainder were all sweet and understanding. So it was nothing to fear.
  11. I've been reading the "What's the Risk" info sheet and I was wondering--are the transmission rates different or higher if you have both types? If it matters, I get fever blisters, but have never had a genital outbreak.
  12. Hmm. I guess I would feel genital is worse, but is it really? I will say I was married many, many years and I only vaguely knew I couldn't kiss or give oral if a sore was present. I just had no idea how potentially serious my fever blisters were. My husband never got it, at least never had a breakout. Your boyfriend was probably like that (uninformed and unaware.) And since it sounds like his sores pop up rarely, it just may have never occurred to him. You're very kind. My partner was furious with me and unleashed his anger full force for a few weeks. I can't blame him, but it hurt.
  13. Vihsv1 I'm sorry for the late response. I honestly don't know how to tell if you will ever have oral sores. I can only say, I have both 1 and 2, and even though I've never had a genital outbreak I do consider my vagina "contagious.". Yes, it sucks. I personally, if I were in your situation, would also consider my mouth "contagious.".
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