I recently received oral sex and a little skin to skin contact with a young man. 1 week after my butt crack started to burn then the area became very sore. I thought it was caused by a recent yeast infection. I visited the doctor for my smear and std testing and showed her, she said it could be from the yeast and gave me an anti fungal cream. I told her that I was experiencing lower back pain and she looked at me strange and said wait until my bloods return. Over the next couple days my pains are worse. I am having a numb burning pain in butt cheeks, lower back, fever and sore skin . I am so scared as I am in relationship. I did not have sex with my partner since this encounter so I can safely say I have not passed it to him. Is this herpes? If so how do I break the news to my partner, family and friends. I am contemplating suicide because I feel as if I have disappoint so many people as I have really good career and has always been focus. Please help.