xxavier098

I am curious what transmission would be lke if you have no symptoms do not use condoms and after years of having the virus?

I have a hard time accepting that someone is accepting if they chose not to date me though. Thank you for your advice.

Also how has everyone’s experience been just overall telling people...are most people accepting ?? How do they react ...I’m scared to fall for someone and be rejected idk if i can recover

Yeah even with the whole hpv situation he’s had a hard time dealing with and when i tried to educate him about it he was extremely unsupportive which made me feel like he wasn’t for me already...i have a hard time believing he will be accepting of this ...he’s made very ignorant comments while we were together about herpes in the past I’m extremely heartbroken this wasn’t my fault and because of something so minor i have to let someone go ...i think I’m going to have to walk away from this. I told him i was clean because i believed i was but what if he thinks i lied to him or cheated. He knows a lot of people within my social circle as well and don’t want him to talk. In the past i got tested for herpes but this was over 3 yrs ago i never thought i had to since i didn’t have any symptoms. I also was celibate for almost two years before i met him 😞 definitely unfair

based off his personality im sure he will be angrier then hurt. i think its best to just keep my mouth shut and just distance myself. However if he approaches me about it then i will have to come forward.

what are the chances of him contracting herpes if i have never shown any symptoms and have used a condom with him during every sexual act?

was he accepting or what was his reaction?

I am a 28 yr old female and i recently went to the gyno for a yeast infection and found out i have herpes. I am scared to death of telling the person i have now been seeing for a year of the results because im afraid of how he will react. We have discussed the topic of STI's several times and often he has mentioned his fear of STI's specifically mentioning Herpes and how he would leave someone if he found out they had it. Luckily because ive discussed my HPV status which causes cervical cancer with him we have used condoms for every sexual encounter for the past year now except for one time. I showed him a copy of my test results in October of 2017 when i met him however i was never tested for Herpes and when he was tested he showed me his herpes results which were negative so i assumed i was good and there was no need to. Im literally shocked and terrified of disclosing. I know this man will not handle this well. EVerything inside me wants to just tell him we should be friends and keep it as friends and not say a word. Please help im not sure how to move forward.