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Well, a lot has happened since I joined in October 2013. The guy whom rejected me because I told him I had herpies called me, on New years eve because he heard I was dating someone. I knew this guy for 12 years as a friend the beginning of those years and he couldn't understand me. And then I meet this new wonderful man in the beginning of December and is willing to take a chance on me knowing I have herpies.. he has done his research, and read about it. and we are taking it slow. To take a chance on me after knowing me for a month, and know I have herpies say's a lot to me about him. He's my boyfriend, his name is Jerry, I told my mother I felt like the windows of heaven finally opened for me. He met my family Christmas eve, three weeks after meeting me.

In 22 months I just had one OB. I shave and it doesn't cause me to have an OB. I was diagnosed with H Three years ago. I do feel its different with every woman how our immune system is working. Research how to keep your immune system high and specially after your menstrual cycle, cause certain hormones can cause an OB. Hope this helped.

I am happy I found this place, I needed this support. People who understood me. Thank you CarolTB and HBetty.

Thank you. Very true.

Hello, I am new. I found this web-site browing the internet after being rejected in my relationship. I was desperate in seeking help, for understanding. To know how to deal with the pain. I got herpies 3yrs ago. But I started seeing this guy a year ago. I've known him for 12 years. I didn't want date him in the beginning because of all the people in the world, he was the last person I wanted to find out I have herpies. I was embarrass, ashame. Scared that he would reject me or see me different. But insisted, he persisted, told me in if I let him go, "that he wasn't letting me go, that he is not saying bye" So I really believed him. I really thought he loved me. Maybe accept me. But I should of told him from the beginning I have herpies. I hadn't had no OB's in a 1 1/2. And two weeks ago we went out, had dinner and I had a martini. I want to think it was the alcohol that triggered me to have an OB. So now I had to tell him. I did, I confessed. I lost him. He left me. I am here because I didn't know how to handle this. I am crushed. My spirit is wounded. I felt and feel so bad, ugly, dirt and a monster. I violated his trust, hurt him, angered him. He told me "I took his choice away, I didn't give him a choice, and that I put his health at risk. I told him it was hard to tell him. I was scared. I told him that I got an OB and I needed to confess. I told him I would go to the doctor and even help him pay his bill. He said "No" that I have done enough. I know I did wrong not telling me when we started dating. I told him this was the reason I kept pushing him away in the beginning. Because I never wanted him of all people to find out cause I felt bad about myself. I asked him if he did love me? And he could't even answer me now. He is angry. This situation ended bad. It has affected my work and school. I need to learn how to handle this to know what to do and be able to handle rejection.