So, I got divorced after 20 years after finding out my husband was cheating on me. I recently was at my yearly GYN appointment and asked her to do a STD panel. When I saw the results that I had Herpes antibodies, I was floored. I am still shocked. I never had a clue, an idea, an inkling that I have this. I haven't even left the house since this news and just want to know how others found out, how you dealt, etc. Thanks for any and all info.