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  1. Nothing worse than an asshole that suffers from a superiority complex who's also in denial. Its great you got away from that. He also sounds like a sex predator. not just with young girls but with knowingly giving the skin condition because he "thinks someone deserves it". good for you on getting away from that
  2. I hope you get to feeling better soon. it sucks to be hurting and scared about what's going on down there sendin good vibes your way
  3. I don't have the answers for gave it to you and since both are aware they have it and should exercise precation when with someone i would try to not focus to much of your energy on. who the giver was. I have genital hsv and can assure you it does get better physically. My first outbreak while ibremember it lasting way over a week and being the most painful, my other 3 have not been that bad. However if its really painful because hsv affects everyone differently you may want to go in and demand they prescribe you valtrex or generics to help.
  4. I have had mirena since 2011. I know I've seen some commercials about suing them and asked my gyno about it but he said that if i wasn't havimg problems with it not to worry. i know a few months of having it put in my monthlys went away. in the beginning though i don't know if it had to have time to adjust or what but sometimes ivcould feel the strings from it. the mirena is vaginally inserted and the strings aren't like soft. it felt like metal strings. However after a while it got to where i didn't feel a "poke on my vaginal wall from the two strinbs anymore. 2012 2013 and now I've still had no problem with it. i aquired hsv back in march of last year. I've had 4 total outbreaks down there. I don't take antivirals i drink lots of coffee. but i never got back to back outbreaks. Other than the freaky string thing in the first couple of months wih mirena i havnt had any problems with it. it lasts 5 years before i have to have it replaced and sounded more desirable than what my other usual form of bc was which was depo provera which is a shot you take every 3 months. I know most definitely the shot also stopped my mohlys. but not having to go in to doctor for 5 years for bc beat every 3 months. never have been a big take a pill everyday kinda person as i forget. Which if i ever get with an h- partner ill have to change that forgetfullness quick lol
  5. Ill continue helpin anywway i can. i know 5 dollars every once in a while nothing. When i was alone and suicidal and to damn broke to really go see a pyschiatrist about the plans of suicde i was making this site and being close to people whi were going thru what i was going thru pulled me out of a very dark place. It was like a pocket psychiatry app on my phone lol. And i know $5 isn't much. We spend more on fast food a month than just $5. for me personally its worth investing what i can if we can help drs be more sympathetic to the emotional damages of a harmless yet overly joked on and ridiculed skin condition.
  6. Love is the best support you can give them and you can show how much you love them with words as well as actions. Don't bring it up often. Most people if they want to talk about it they will. Just simply tell them you're there for them. they're still the same person you thought they were yesterday. I've also delt with depression as well and i know you will recall its nothing worse than a well meaning friend telling you who has absolutely no idea what you're going through saying they understan. Just by simply saying i may never understand what you're going rhrough or how hurt you may be right now but i love you and I'm here for yoh always. Those words can have as much power as a loving hug for a person. I don't know what personality type your family member may be but i have a hot headed temper. I'm usually coll and calm for the mostvpaet but when i lose it i just snap and lash out. i have lashed out at a person i have loved over this sitution due to paranoia and fear from hsv. Truly lovinh someone means loving them even when you see how ugly that person really can be. I can't tell you how much it meant to me for my frienf that i had a completely inappropriate and uncalled for bitch fit on when i apologized was not to accept the apology coldly or try to ignore me which i would have considerd justified. instead she said i know you're goin through a lot and have a lot on your mind. i still love you. Everythings ok with us. and when she said that i realized just how deep and how true our friendship ran. Now I'm not saying if your loved one becomes chronicaly agressive and verballt abusive to accept it. thhey will need professional help more than likely if they do that and you don't have to put up with it. but if you can love and understand that sometimes people lash out in amanger and frustration. probably like you did in depression somettimfs cuz i know i did you will be such a light and guiding spirit in your loved ones life while they are trying to figure all this out. good luck and its a great thing you're doing.
  7. You're not alone. I am going through sonething similar. Thankfully dancer was here to support me the other night and you're at a good place for support. while there may be no magic words to take away the sting of rejection it helps to know you're not alone
  8. Ih yeah what dancer said. if its only been that short a time its way to soon to know.
  9. First congratulations on being hsv negative. its everything all if us wanted to hwar when we were worrying about it. I hope this little scare will make you much more precatious in your own health. as we as realizing that us peeps with hsv are down ro. earth pretty cool peeps to who happen to just have a skin condition. anyhow i wanted to put my 2 cents on here because although i don't remember my friend complaing about groin pain and she didn't have testicles to have that be in pain ahe did have a sudden onset of symptoms and back and neck pain and feeling like the flu and she had meningitis. technically they don't call it sexually transmitted but if you swapped saliva like french kissing that's how she got it. but really none us heelre can tell you what that is you should def go back to the doctor. good luck and hope you get to feelin better soon
  10. I really should have went through my starred threads tthe other night. I forgot all the positive things from this that coould come up lol. i have been eating better and making sure i get more sleep. like lelani was saying. I've always had acne on my face but with me trying to take better xare of my body for herpes my skin has clearedup quite abit from what it used to be. I've also lost weight too so tgere are a lot of positive things from this we tend to overlook
  11. I wanted to bring this thread back up because i think its a great thread and lots if wisdom on it. Taking the high road isn't always the easiest but when we look back we are so proud to have accomplished the path we took. When I'm in a positive mood like now i see herpes as being a great lesson in being humble. And not being so judgmental. before herpes i was a very judgmental person with a "High horse" attitude at times. And if its not herpes then something needed to be done in my life to "get me off the high horse" lol.
  12. As I was giving some advice to a friend today I realized I could take my own advice. Good people fuck up sometimes. It doesn't erase all the good things we've done. It doesn't damage us. It builds us into better stronger more humble and gracious people. A lot of times we think the karma train is plowin through our lives to catch up to all our mistakes . I am a big believer of karma and what you put into the universe you get back. Some of my reletives even told us as kids if we did something truly bad or evil. it would be like a cloud hanging over our children and children's children. That serious bad karna would in fact impact several generations of our children lol. Niw while i may believe that could happen for a truly. evil or horrific person tghe majority of people i have experienced in my life are good people with good hearts. And i notice they get down on them selves and think karma is punishing them when in fact maybe tge great spirit gas a hand in what's going on and is molding them into better and stronger people through hardships. Good people make bad choices. It doesn't mean you have to constantly reap a bitter karma harvest. What you think is karma catching up to you isn't. You're a good person. You're simply in a different phase of your llife that's making you grow up just a luttle bit more when you thought you were grown already and had it all figured out. Life is gonna keep us on our toes. I just wanted to share that with my fellow h peeps cuz it was something i was thinking about today. Yall are here to listen to my depressing shit so i figured i better share the good shit too lol.
  13. That was really cool to read i didn't realize it was a primal instinct to feel that way. thank you for sharing that with me i might have missed some stuff going on yall been talkin about. My lifes been great foe the most part. I longer even think about acting like a science lab rat around my kids. i guess now the only time I'm gonna think much about it is when a man's involved lol. its all good i shall stock up on ibuprofen hahaha and knock out those physical rejection pangs before they start lol
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