Sorry to hear about the emotional stress you are going through, I really can't imagine as I don't have it, but my "friend" of a month does. ith that said I hope this helps a little. I met a gal on Match a month ago. The first time I saw her I knew I wanted to get to know her. We have texted daily, see each other twice a week, have been physical but no sex yet (like teenagers... lots of fun). After 2.5 weeks she told me she had HSV2... the pain and stress in her eyes was heartbreaking. She told me to take my time, do some research, and think about it. I told her immediately I didn't want this to define what we may have together. I like her a lot... I don't want this to get in the way but I also understand how important it is for us to communicate and work through it together. It has been a few weeks since she told me and I continue to be super optimistic about our future. You are not alone, there is someone out there for you. I hope this helps, even a little.