MangoKitty

It’s possible, but the timeframe isn’t definite. It could be weeks or months before anything physically shows up. Just make sure to keep an eye out for anything that looks/feels off.

I’m sorry he acted that way toward you. Has he responded since? If not, then he may have ghosted you. A lot of people don’t know how to handle this conversation and they shut down (not saying that’s acceptable, it’s just the sad truth). They may come back around after some thought and education or they may not. Hate is a strong word, so I don’t believe that, but there are some communication issues. It’s not your fault, so don’t ever blame yourself! Moving forward, at the FIRST sign of you feeling like you really like someone and see a deeper relationship/connection, disclose. This gives them time to think while making the impact a little less painful should they decide not to move forward. Feelings won’t be too invested. I think I read this ideology on here, but use H as a way to weed out the b.s. If they aren’t willing to accept that part of you, then they weren’t for you from the beginning. Sending positivity ❤️

Yeah...you should let this simmer and not talk for a few days. You both need time apart, especially you. The push and pull is tiring and you need a mental break. Set that boundary/timeframe (few days to a week MAX—he’s had plenty of time) and if he doesn’t make a decision, cut him loose. You don’t deserve that treatment. I hope everything works out ❤️

Anytime! Sending positive energy ❤️

Hello, and yes, from the sources I’ve read with those circumstances (no Rx & no protection) the risk is around 4%, given that there was no asymptomatic shedding. Also, female to male has lower transmission rates, if that calms your nerves some (assuming you are male).

Thank you @Sunny720 for starting this very important conversation and to the rest of y’all for keeping it going and sharing your stories! I’ve had hsv2 for about 2 years; although it’s become easier to deal with physically, mentally I break down sometimes. I just keep telling myself that’s there’s so much more to life than sulking over this. For those that are scared to disclose, please don’t be. Easier said than done, but you may be pleasantly surprised at the reaction. I’ve disclosed a handful of times and 9 times out of 10, they’ve been positive. Education and a calm demeanor are the biggest factors that helps it go smoothly. As a lot of you mentioned, people in our community know virtually squat about H, so with us teaching, it’ll smooth a lot of worries over ❤️