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  1. thank you for your response @mr_hopp!! and the information. i totally get it, so I’m wondering am I just being a little mean when I say why is it fair that he’ll be okay to have sex with me but not go down on me? i honestly am lucky cause I could care less about it, so it’s not a big deal, but I’m my mind it’s like either you accept it or you don’t, I don’t feel like there’s really any gray areas with this stuff. Can you offer your thoughts? Thank you xo
  2. I have to ask, because I genuinely would like to know how y’all think about that scenario. Dating someone, who I have an amazing connection with, that I love, who knows what I come with. Obviously he accepted it because we’re dating, but can I be upset that he still gets nervous about intercourse? I was diagnosed with GHSV1 in 2013, and haven’t experienced symptoms since... My boyfriend will gladly have unprotected sex with me, but still gets uncomfortable with going down on me as he feels that’s more of a risk than intercourse. To each their own, cause he has done his research and h
  3. So I had that happen to me right after I disclosed too. It was normal, a little hesitation from him in the beginning, but I still felt sad cause I could feel him distancing himself a little. It is a really sad feeling cause you almost can’t help to feel like it’s your fault. That you screwed up the relationship. That’s how I felt. And I tried my best to be positive and let him have his time to think about things, and research, because it is their right, but honestly if the way he’s acting is something that isn’t changing after a little while, it may make you two resent each other. If I c
  4. I’m so sorry. It’s a really crappy thing to have to go through, really. Just remember how wonderful you are and push through, it’s all we can do. things tend to fall apart so better things can come together, I believe that entirely! Maybe he was getting me ready for Mr. Right!
  5. Thank you! I appreciate that!! Unfortunately my update still is the same in the fact that he does not want to pursue a relationship. The feelings and chemistry are still there, 100% (since I make the best decisions, this guy is a work acquaintance so I still have to see him pretty frequently, and I still get butterflies seeing him). He has had a long time to process everything, and has chosen himself in this situation, and I’m trying to learn that I can’t blame him; but also trying to remember that it is ultimately his loss because I could have made him so so happy. I still fe
  6. Thank you so much. I definitely agree that i’m worried about my sadness turning into self-pity, for sure. It’s one of my first times going through it so I already see myself slipping here and there and doing it. But thank you for also reminding me that I did good. 💜 I know I did.
  7. Well, I really liked this guy. Probably the most amazing & genuine connection I’ve ever experienced in my life. One of those fairy tale, cliche types of feels for this boy. i knew having the talk with him was going to be hard. He was the first person that I wanted to date since being diagnosed so it was terrifying. He made the process so easy. Told me that it didn’t change the way he felt towards me and that he still really really liked me. Score. I thought the hardest part was over. I think it was, but maybe i’m just being a little dramatic with my feelings here but, now i’m hur
  8. Well, I really liked this guy. Probably the most amazing & genuine connection I’ve ever experienced in my life. One of those fairy tale, cliche types of feels for this boy. i knew having the talk with him was going to be hard. He was the first person that I wanted to date since being diagnosed so it was terrifying. He made the process so easy. Told me that it didn’t change the way he felt towards me and that he still really really liked me. Score. I thought the hardest part was over. I think it was, but maybe i’m just being a little dramatic with my feelings here but, now i’m hur
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