So I had that happen to me right after I disclosed too. It was normal, a little hesitation from him in the beginning, but I still felt sad cause I could feel him distancing himself a little.
It is a really sad feeling cause you almost can’t help to feel like it’s your fault. That you screwed up the relationship. That’s how I felt. And I tried my best to be positive and let him have his time to think about things, and research, because it is their right, but honestly if the way he’s acting is something that isn’t changing after a little while, it may make you two resent each other. If I can offer any advice, I would say not to push it or ask if he’s okay or bring it up too much in the beginning. Try not to focus on the differences in his actions, unless of course it’s harming you mentally or physically. Try to enjoy his company and the relationship without stressing or straining about the situation and see if that helps. After a few weeks, if it’s still the same and he still seems disconnected, maybe revisit the topic and see if he has any issues. Because after disclosing, for me, I felt like with this guy, if it had ever worked out, it would have been such a strained relationship and it would have been unenjoyable. I imagined that with him, he would always be paranoid and worried about everything if we did try to have a romantic relationship, with sex, and that’s not how a relationship should be. It would just lead to resentment from both ends, I feel, so definitely give him a chance to get it together but know your boundaries. You’re beautiful for disclosing, cause I’ve been on both sides before. It’s not an easy thing.