scaredandconfused13

I just want to say that i plan on telling him. I wasn't disclosed to when I contracted it and I done plan on being that person.

So I have type 2 and was diagnosed about 5 years ago. The last outbreak i had was well over a year ago. I recently ended a long relationship that I disclosed at the start because it was right around the time i was diagnosed. To be perfectly honest I forget that i even have it because it has been so long since i have had an outbreak or any kind of symptoms. The relationship I was in made me forget as well because we never really talked about it after I disclosed and it was all fine. Well I am single now and I messed up royally with a family friend. So here is where my problem lies and where I could use all the advice. I was at a wedding and saw a family friend. I didn't plan on having sex with anyone, but unfortunately I was drinking and one thing led to another. The next day we were hanging out, but it didn't lead to sex. We did use a condom and thankfully it didn't break. I completely spaced that i even had herpes until today when a close family member brought it up to me. How do I tell this guy and disclose to him when we already had sex? How do I reiterate that I didn't mean to fool him or be sneaky at all, I just forget because haven't had an outbreak in so long that i forget sometimes. Plus, i really like this guy and i don't know what to say or how to say it. I appreciate all the advice and I am going out of my mind trying to figure out the best way to say it.