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  1. Thank you both for your time to reply and your perspective. I guess as you say it would be a shared responsibility and with time i will learn how to live with my diagnosis within a relationship. Thank you again x
  2. Hi, So, I think I totally accepted what has happened to me. I am trying to keep healthy and so far I only had i e OB. The only thing that scares me to move forward and just be who I was before my diagnosis is the fact that I will pass it on. I am not worried about disclosing or rejection, I just don't want to be the reason someone else will be in pain and will have to live with H. I am gutted coz like everyone I still love sex but I cannot imagine myself ever to enjoy it without worrying. I even recently gave up on a relationship. I disclosed he accepted but I was so scared I let him go. Anyone else feeling like that?
  3. Just found this link and wondered if it's still active ie basically I am looking for a buddy.
  4. Thanks for sharing. I have just been diagnosed and going thru laser hair removal. I have been worried about that, as we are still under lockdown i know I have few more weeks before my session so hoping I won't get the ob
  5. Hi, I am not sure if I can help but I will try. From a pov of someone who just have been diagnosed i can understand where she is coming from. But I think you should not give up and reassure her with your feelings and talk about it in more detail. Look at the statistics and all the protection u can use when getting intimate. Maybe she just needs reassurance that u r in this for real. I am sure that if she likes you half as much as you like her then u can work things out. It's all about communication and trust. I hope it will work out
  6. Thank you @Malibu31I have the sores and pain and now the discharge sorry tmi. My kids are 7 and 10 and it doesn't look like I have had the virus for long. I just worry about caring for them and being the best mum I can be. I feel really guilty. I am constantly stressed and I worry that I will always have the obs. I know I probably look at the worse case scenario but I have always been a bit of a pessimistic (my ex husband used to call me eeyore)
  7. Hi, so I am just waiting for my results to come bk but the Dr is certain I have the virus. I have read pretty much everything on the Internet, cried, felt sorry for myself and blamed myself for being irresponsible and stupid. But my question is, if anyone can help: at the minute I am not thinking about my future love life but I am worried if this illness can effect my children or can I be poorly in any other way than ob? I am a single mum and I need to be there for my kids. I feel like I am failing them
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