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  1. Hi, I just wanted to ask what to do. I have been diagnosed with hsv-2 12 weeks ago. Since then I have had 3 ob. I have been taking the antivirals for every outbreak which helps, but what I have noticed is that the main blister where the ob always starts never goes away. It does shrink and it's not painful but it is always there. Anyone has been on a similar situation? Any advice would be appreciated, thank you
  2. Thank you both for your time to reply and your perspective. I guess as you say it would be a shared responsibility and with time i will learn how to live with my diagnosis within a relationship. Thank you again x
  3. Hi, So, I think I totally accepted what has happened to me. I am trying to keep healthy and so far I only had i e OB. The only thing that scares me to move forward and just be who I was before my diagnosis is the fact that I will pass it on. I am not worried about disclosing or rejection, I just don't want to be the reason someone else will be in pain and will have to live with H. I am gutted coz like everyone I still love sex but I cannot imagine myself ever to enjoy it without worrying. I even recently gave up on a relationship. I disclosed he accepted but I was so scared I let him go. Anyone else feeling like that?
  4. Just found this link and wondered if it's still active ie basically I am looking for a buddy.
  5. Thanks for sharing. I have just been diagnosed and going thru laser hair removal. I have been worried about that, as we are still under lockdown i know I have few more weeks before my session so hoping I won't get the ob
  6. Hi, I am not sure if I can help but I will try. From a pov of someone who just have been diagnosed i can understand where she is coming from. But I think you should not give up and reassure her with your feelings and talk about it in more detail. Look at the statistics and all the protection u can use when getting intimate. Maybe she just needs reassurance that u r in this for real. I am sure that if she likes you half as much as you like her then u can work things out. It's all about communication and trust. I hope it will work out
  7. Thank you @Malibu31I have the sores and pain and now the discharge sorry tmi. My kids are 7 and 10 and it doesn't look like I have had the virus for long. I just worry about caring for them and being the best mum I can be. I feel really guilty. I am constantly stressed and I worry that I will always have the obs. I know I probably look at the worse case scenario but I have always been a bit of a pessimistic (my ex husband used to call me eeyore)
  8. Hi, so I am just waiting for my results to come bk but the Dr is certain I have the virus. I have read pretty much everything on the Internet, cried, felt sorry for myself and blamed myself for being irresponsible and stupid. But my question is, if anyone can help: at the minute I am not thinking about my future love life but I am worried if this illness can effect my children or can I be poorly in any other way than ob? I am a single mum and I need to be there for my kids. I feel like I am failing them
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