hello i would like to bump this in 2020 i have this same issue
I was diagnosed with hsv-2 in march2020 with 4x visible blisters
These red dots underneath the penis head/glands have been with me for over 3 years and are very visible after sex/masturbation.
I am currently dealing with balanitis for over 6 months , this site has been a comfort place
thanks everyone for sharing your stories.