About 16 years ago, I had a weird bump on my butt. I was pregnant at the time and I thought it was probably just a cystic zit due to all the horomones in my system. It was one bump, not a cluster. Had been married for 5 years, and never had any std. my gyno took a look and said it could be herpes, but didn’t do a blood test. He said if I had another “outbreak” we could talk antivirals. I left feeling pretty confused. And like I needed a new gyno. It cleared up fast and I never had another instance since. So, I blew it off as not herpes, but rather that cystic zit I suspected.
Now I’m divorce