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DolphinFL

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  1. I have had h for 18 years bathed, showered and swam with my daughters. Although, I do try and keep my wash cloths away from them out of respect, they have grabbed my towel, wash cloth, and scrunchy by accident. I also felt a little guilt when I realized they did this, but nothing ever came of it...just guilt. Honestly, I was diagnosed so long ago and knew nothing about shedding. I just assumed as long as I didn't have an OB at the time it was fine. So much easier to bathe your baby in the tub with you at times and a great bonding experience. Rest easy Mamma!
  2. Not sure if it will help, but I use Paul Mitchell Tea Tree bar soap when I shower. It's kinda minty so use with caution if your super sensitive. It seems to help to reduce any alternate discomfort or itching issues related to HSV. I'd rather tingle for a minute than feel uncomfortable for hours. I also like it because tea tree is anti-microbial and since I frequent the gym it makes me feel a little more disinfected after using the weight machines. Yes, I am a bit of a germaphobe, always have been...ironic! I know it's probably not rx'd by the doctor, but I self treat with Abrevia when I get an OB, usually gone in less than 7 days. Plus it calms the OB pain immediately for me. I have to agree I am going on 18 years with H, stress will bring on the alternate symptoms especially the pelvic and hip discomfort. I recently went through very trying time as a caregiver and going through a separation, and during this time I was having a larger number of issues. I decided enough was enough went back to clean eating, exercise and finding some me time. Symptoms and frequency improved quickly. Best of luck to y'all!
  3. @myfiercecalm I read your post and feel I can relate. The difference is I have had H since 1997, got more than a few drinks for my 21st birthday. I had been married since then. During my marriage the virus was simply an occasional nuisance, rarely did I think of it or allow it affect my life. I too was scared of having other STD's upon diagnosis. Happy to say that was all just a big worry and I even had a healthy child after my diagnosis. After reading the posts on this site and evaluating my own feelings, it seems the stigma causes more pain than the virus itself. Now that I am faced with getting back out into the world the virus is controlling my thought process more than I would like it to. I also fear the vetting process as far as a new partner and feel that I am going to be so particular that I may rule everyone out. At the same time I also know that when I meet the right person everything will work out. It may take time, but it will happen. Staying positive, like I have a choice...lol!
  4. Hi, new to the site and would love to find a few friends to share conversation and support. I am not new to HSV it has been a part of my life for a long time. However, due to changes in my life I now have to learn to become more confident and open about it which is very new to me. Hope everyone is having an awesome day!
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