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TheChimp

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  1. I thought that might be the case. I really apreciate your input. Thank you!
  2. I recently found out that a girl I have started dating has HSV2 it was a bit of a shock at first but I really like the girl and I can see an amazing future so it doesn't really bother me. We have both agreed to go slow so we can really get a feel for our longevity. If this is the girl I settle down and stay with then I don't care about the risks because it really doesn't matter. I just dont want to be in a situation where I catch it and then we split. She is waiting to go onto suppressive medication and I'll use condoms at the start to lower the risk untill we're both really sure that we are right for each other. Until she gets the medication I can obviously please her in other ways. My question is this, since I already have HSV1 orally, could I also catch HSV2 orally or will the HSV1 protect me. Im aware that you can catch both but I don't know if you can catch both at the same site. Thanks in advance for any advice!
  3. Thanks for your detailed reply. I believe she has been infected from somewhere between 6 months to a year. She is looking at going onto suppressing medication. Finding out has bothered me a bit, I can't lie but i have done my best to reassure her that I still like her and want to see where things go. I'm working on it because she is such a lovely girl and I really feal for her. Your input really helps me. I honestly didn't realise just how wide spread it is!
  4. Hi everyone, I'm just looking for some advice/reassurance really. I have recently started dating a girl, she is absolutely amazing. We haven't done anything sexual yet and she has just opened up to me that she has HSV2 from an abusive ex. I'm not going to lie, it initially took me by shock because I've never had anything like that. The thing is I really like the girl. Realistically if things get serious then I'm likely to get it eventually. If I know that we'll be together Indefinitely then it doesn't really matter. What I'm concerned about is catching it then us splitting up and I'm left trying to come to tearms with dating with herpes. What I have suggested is that we take things real slow. We make sure that we are really sure about the future before committing to anything. I'd like to hear from anybody who has a partner with herpes or has it themselves and their partner doesn't. How does this effect the relationship. How effective is medication to prevent transmission? I have infrequent recouring HSV1 on my mouth from childhood so I can sympathise. Does this give me any kind of resistance to HSV2? I think I have already decided how I want to proceed, going slow to gauge our longevity. this girl is like no one I have met before. I guess I'm just after reassurance that I'm doing the right thing and it's not going to be as bad as I think it could be. Sorry for the long post but I apreciate any input
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