Freebirdie

I’m am sorry you experienced this. your story is not over yet. The woman of your dreams will accept every part of you. Trust me, just because you have herpes doesn’t make you any less than. Let’s say you had a different experience in life that someone didn’t want to accept does that make you less than? No . It just means they probably weren’t the one. I feel compassion for you because if the way you are feeling but it’s gets better. Remind yourself you are worthy , take care of your self, your mind body , and soul. Show yourself love. Remind yourself a virus doesn’t change your worth . Also look into holistic healing! I don’t believe there is anything the body can’t heal.

Yes I know it’s hard and words may not do you justice but I want you to know it gets better. It seems like the worst thing in the world but I have told people which I never ever thought I’d be capable of doing and they seemed to like me more. They seemed to have compassion, and love me for my vulnerability. In life it’s not often people are vulnerable but when you open up about a struggle another person can open up as well.people have so many things to deal with but when you have herpes you feel it’s the worst. It’s not. It’s a virus . Nonetheless you are still valuable and will get through this. ❤️

Hi love, unfortunately this happens in moments where things get hot and heavy and feel out of your control. Coming from someone who had to tell people after the fact the best advice I can give is come from a place of sincerity in your apology/ explanation. You did not intend for this to happen but things got out of your control. Make sure you can talk about the virus from a mature educated place that doesn’t make you sound rooted in fear. You will be surprised some people without herpes don’t treat it like the worst thing in the world but a virus apart of life and many people live with. So don’t assume the worst no matter what the honesty will satisfy your soul. Also it is possible to not ruin the relationship but you not be tied to the outcome. Much love

I hope this isn’t too long. But it’s been a long time coming. It is no secret that herpes is something that takes over your life, and your mind. (If you let it)I was 19 when I contracted this virus and for many years I asked God why. I hated it. I had only had 3 sexual partners at the time. I felt upset that people who had been so promiscuous didn’t seem to catch it. Maybe it was just me, maybe I was just cursed is what I thought. Having the virus changed me as a person. The men I attracted were not good for me because I didn’t think highly of myself anymore. My doctor at the time told me if I take the pills I could not pass it. Maybe there was just limited conversation around it but I believed that. I thought we’ll this is something I’ll just die with and never tell anyone as long as I’m taking the medication I’ll be fine. Obviously in hindsight that was a mistake. I know now that you may be putting someone at risk and should disclose so they can make that Choice themselves. Disclosures My story is not a sad one. It is my story for a reason I truly believe having this virus lead to important things I was meant to go through on my journey of life. I knew herpes was holding me back in so many wats. That I was a shell of myself. I had so many dreams then said oh but what if someone finds out. It held me hostage. Until one day God moved me. I listened to a Lauryn hill song called get out and said look I can’t live like this anymore. I can’t live in shame and I deserve happiness. I am not less of a person because I contracted a virus. Just because the virus has a stigma doesn’t mean I will stigmas myself. Humans get sick it happens. People live with illness every day. Not only that but in my heart I knew this was something I would defeat. I would destroy herpes in my body the way the body attacks any virus. Through eating clean and using herbs from Mother Nature. I called everyone I had not disclose too and told them. It was the hardest thing but it freed me . I was not thinking about fear because truth is all I cared and I’d rather live in truth then die in fear. The disclosures went well. This whole time I was the one tormenting myself when others had compassion for me and didn’t make it a big deal. For so long I hid it and then I freed myself by letting it go. Thankfully my disclosures have been successful and literally men have not made it a big deal and still wanted to have sex. If someone doesn’t accept it that’s ok thats their choice but It does not make me less worthy. I am worthy of love and that comes from yourself. If you believe that you’ll attract that. with that said everything is not peaches and cream neither is life. I still have to deal with guilt . But I am destroying this virus. I took herbs and detoxing and in one week my numbers dropped. I know if I stick with it I will completely kill this virus but the temptation of wanting to eat bad is still around so pray for me. All in all love yourself and accept yourself. You are not flawed we are human. You are worthy. The body is powerful and will heal itself. I love you

I hope this isn’t too long. But it’s been a long time coming. It is no secret that herpes is something that takes over your life, and your mind. (If you let it)I was 19 when I contracted this virus and for many years I asked God why. I hated it. I had only had 3 sexual partners at the time. I felt upset that people who had been so promiscuous didn’t seem to catch it. Maybe it was just me, maybe I was just cursed is what I thought. Having the virus changed me as a person. The men I attracted were not good for me because I didn’t think highly of myself anymore. My doctor at the time told me if I take the pills I could not pass it. Maybe there was just limited conversation around it but I believed that. I thought well this is something I’ll just die with and never tell anyone as long as I’m taking the medication I’ll be fine. Obviously in hindsight that was a mistake. I know now that you may be putting someone at risk and should disclose so they can make that Choice themselves. Disclosures My story is not a sad one. It is my story for a reason I truly believe having this virus lead to important things I was meant to go through on my journey of life. I knew herpes was holding me back in so many ways. That I was a shell of myself. I had so many dreams then said oh but what if someone finds out. It held me hostage. Until one day God moved me. I listened to a Lauryn hill song called get out and said look I can’t live like this anymore. I can’t live in shame and I deserve happiness. I am not less of a person because I contracted a virus. Just because the virus has a stigma doesn’t mean I will stigmatize myself. Humans get sick, it happens. People live with illness every day. Not only that but in my heart I knew this was something I would defeat. I would destroy herpes in my body through eating clean and using herbs from Mother Nature. I called everyone I had not disclosed too and told them. It was the hardest thing but it freed me . I was not thinking about fear because truth is all I cared and I’d rather live in truth then die in fear. The disclosures went well. This whole time I was the one tormenting myself when others had compassion for me and didn’t make it a big deal. For so long I hid it and then I freed myself by letting it go. Thankfully my disclosures have been successful and literally men have not made it a big deal and still wanted to have sex. If someone doesn’t accept it that’s ok thats their choice but It does not make me less worthy. I am worthy of love and that comes from yourself. If you believe that you’ll attract that. with that said everything is not peaches and cream neither is life. I still have to deal with guilt. But I am destroying this virus. I took herbs and detoxing and in one week my numbers dropped. I know if I stick with it I will completely kill this virus but the temptation of wanting to eat bad is still around so pray for me. All in all love yourself and accept yourself. You are not flawed we are human. You are worthy. The body is powerful and will heal itself. I love you