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Thank you so much! We are both trying to remain rational and he wants to go get tested as well so we will be going together. We have good history and he doesn’t have unaccounted for time that I’m aware of so trying to stay positive. Also wanted to add that I haven’t noticed them break open and ooze. Would it be noticeable? They’re just kind of scabbing now and healing. thanks again!

Here’s today. The picture isn’t great because it’s difficult

Hi! Thanks for the reply! they are on my inner thigh/upper butt area spread out. I noticed them a couple weeks ago by fluke as there wasn’t any pain or itch or anything. It was hard to see but they were like red bumps of differing sizes. It wasn’t until yesterday that I figured out how to get a better look by using a mirror and my phone. They are definitely healing/going away and I’ve been feeling fine otherwise. The redder one was a bit sore yesterday if I touched it but other than that basically un noticeable. I do get bikini waxes but my last one was also a few weeks ago and unfortunately didn’t notice if they were there after that. I’ve been married for 12 years and I have been faithful the whole time. He has had cold sores in the past but not for a long time now, though it’s my understanding that spread can still happen that way. I’ve never had this before that I’ve noticed. I finally told him a couple days ago and he swears he hasn’t done anything and it seems like that could be possible, just so odd that after all this time I’d randomly get it now. We are going to make an appointment to get tested on Monday. I’m just really stressed out because it’s hard not to think I got it from him through infidelity somehow….