I did go to the Dr. the day I noticed the blisters. The test on the blisters came back positive, but my blood came back negative. They told me that showed it was an initial outbreak for me. I had also been checked for everything under the sun before we even started dating, again all negative.
I joined here right away looking for answers and knowledge from people with experience. But never posted until now. I guess outbreak number 2 just a few days shy of 2 months after getting it fired up everything in my head again.
She's never been tested for it. But when I had the talk with her that I just got herpes. She just said, "Well I kinda figured he gave something to me."