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  1. In dealing with my first major outbreak, I found these things helpful. Carmex: it's available over the counter, specifically for chapped skin/lips, it is also effective on infection. Weather related cold-sores. Works like a charm. Washing and pre-treating seems to be working well. After bathing, use alcohol, I use witch hazel diffused in grain alcohol, but I imagine isopropyl is the same. Rub in thoroughly. Bring out the sting from the sores. Allow that to dry and then treat sores with carmex. I've also found that a layer of petroleum jelly works well as a finish. All these things create stinging, which diminishes quickly. You just have to "muscle up", beat the pain. All infections sting when disinfected, that's how you know it's working. As the sores heal and recede, the stinging does too. As far as topical antiseptic, I've also found that vinegar/water mix does well too. About a half and half mixture. This outbreak was bigger and more aggressive, and I have it diminished and healing after only three days. Hope that helps,, be strong!
  2. This is what I have learned in the few months I have been positive. There is no sense in giving up! With honesty up front, and searching in the right places, I or anyone can find a fellow positive. I've decided to be exclusive with other positive people. I can't bear the thought of risk. The good side of the situation is that there are many others in the same boat, who want and need someone just as I do!
  3. Gosh, thanks Grace! What I have is hsv2 oral and genital. I worry about hugs, facial contact in particular. Everything else I'm clear on. Intimacy is not an issue, I'm searching for someone who is also positive. No partner right now. I'm doing well enough. No issues with self-esteem. This was done to me, it's not a character flaw! Thanks again, msg anytime,,!
  4. I am newly diagnosed and the worst part I see is the general isolation. Not the sexual limitation, but the limit on everyday platonic affection. Hugs and kisses, facial contact, all these things are now off-limits. That's my heaviest issue, coming to acceptance of these things.
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