I am a 20 year old female looking for support and encouragement. I had sex last friday and on the next sunday I had what I thought was a yeast infection. I got the medicine and the symptoms mostly went away, but then a week after having sex i noticed a painful spot on my lady parts right near the opening. I immediately freaked out and looked at it in a mirror a million times, and all i could see was some redness. I went to a gyno immediately with my mom, the only person who knows, and got tested for herpes. the doc said it didn't look like a typical herpes outbreak, just a little cut, and I got more medicine for the yeast infection which she said I did have....however, now two days have passed since i visited a doctor and the spot has gotten worse.
I THINK i can see tiny red bumps and it is painful, not only because the doctor aggressively swabbed it for a culture. It burns if any pee touches it when i go to the bathroom, but aside from that there is some general discomfort around the area and it SUCKS. I don't know what else this could be, and since i have had sex in my life (as most 20 year olds have) I know how entirely possible it is that I do have herpes. I can't get treated for the symptoms until I get diagnosed this friday, if the test shows up any conclusive results since I got tested when I first felt it.
My mom tells me to stop crying until I know for sure but I just feel like I know, what else could this be??? Herpes is so common and I know that my chances of being all right are very low. Who will want me now?? Who would ever want me when there are so many girls out there without herpes?? I was recently called disgusting, a slut, and a pig who can't keep her legs closed, by a former sex partner because he found out I also had sex with other guys he knows. If he or anyone else knew about this.....they would really think I am disgusting then. I am changing my ways of casual sex mostly because I never ever want to have sex again knowing that I could infect someone with something so shameful and embarassing. I am thinking of joining a herpes-only dating site because then at least I can find someone like me and I won't have to have "the talk" because all i ever wanted was to find love and now I have made it so much harder for myself by coming in contact with this infection.