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  1. Maybe I did too! Finally disclosed tonight and she didn't even blink, she said she knew about the stigma and was happy I told her, It was almost annoying after all the anxiety! haha Thanks again @DeMar and @Flowerteacher55 🙂
  2. @DeMar Thanks for taking the time to share mate, I really appreciate that! Really happy it worked out for you, hope it does me. She's off to see her family for 4 days over Easter so I've decided to defer until next week even though we have a video call tomorrow, I don't want her having to carry that on her break.
  3. Thanks for your reply 🙂 I'll give her a call early next week and have the talk. I have the fact sheets from another one of your posts so thank you for those too!
  4. I'm 36 and I've had HSV2 since I was 19, I'm now largely asymptomatic (maybe a flare up once every 2 years). Over the last 12 months or so I've built a relationship with a girl from work and whilst it's mainly been friendly it's become very intimate in the last few months. I've tried to distance myself from discussing anything sexual but it's become impossible to avoid and it feels weird to steer conversations and flirting away. We've even playfully discussed how these things are going to play out when I arrive. She's in Canada and I'm based in the UK, but my company is moving me over to her town in 4 weeks (for 6 months) to expand the business and train new employees. I consulted with my friends a while ago on this and they unanimously recommended I wait until we meet in person. I did agree with this at the time but as the relationship has escalated in the last few months I'm starting to have real anxiety and don't want to seen as deceiving her or leading her on, we've both made it clear how much we like each other. My previous disclosures came early in relationships but were in my early to mid 20s. This feels like a completely different beast to tackle, plus it's been a while. Any advice welcome!
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