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  1. 3 1/2 years ago I was dating a girl for 3/4 months. I remember that on the first or second date that she had a cold sore on her mouth. I am not sure if I have ever had a cold sore but I think I had dated a girl previously that had cold sores occasionally. Note: I have never had any symptoms of GHSV-1 and I know that if a person has cold sores then it is highly unlikely for that individual to get GHSV-1. Anyways about two months into the relationship, she wanted to engage in unprotected period sex on a Monday. (Note I’ve never had an STD). That Wednesday morning at 11:00 am she tests positive for GHSV-1. This would be 38 hours later after sex. I didn’t have any flu like symptoms or sores. She showed me the test result 5 days later (the next time I saw her). Her symptoms lasted 2 weeks (not exactly sure as she didn’t share any details about it). We never had sex during the outbreak to my knowledge. I made the mistake to not ask much about it. I was in shock. She never had flu like symptoms or full body aches to my knowledge during the outbreak. From my knowledge, the incubation period is around 4-7 days. She still blamed me for giving her GHSV-1. I’ve talked to doctors and infectious disease specialist about this and they all believe that she already had it and that I do not have it. Also that I didn’t give it to her. Anyways the relationship continued for a month or two (during which she became very abusive and mean) and then things ended. We never talked about her GHSV-1 diagnosis. I was in shock and extremely depressed. Mostly because she became very hostile. Pretty much a form of domestic abuse. She will not talk to me and I am confused still. I have never had typical GHSV-1 symptoms and doctors do not believe I have it. I would appreciate some insight from people that have gone through similar situations as this crosses my mind almost weekly. It bothers me. I see a therapist and it still bothers me.
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