I would like to share my experience.
I had a sexual relationship with a lady who I met by chance 9 weeks ago and I used a condom during the intercourse. However, I kissed her on the lips and she gave me unprotected oral sex on my penis (She did not have any visible outbreaks). After 3 days of this relation, I started feeling unwell. I had fatigue, urethral problems (difficulties to urinate for 5 days), burning on tip of my penis, tingling around genital area, shooting nerve pain on my penis (coming and going), difficulties when urinating. In addition, tingling, burning and shooting nerve pain on my lips, my gums, my tongue and all around my mouth, nerve twitching and spasms on my lips. No discharge from penis, no blisters, no cold sores, just got some rashes on my inside lips and gums which was burning a little bit. In general, I feel discomfort around my mouth and my genital area. Also I have been facing pain in my thigh, knees, legs, lymph nodes groin and my bladder.
Nerve pain going through my thigh down my feet and toes.
I did the blood test for all STDs and all came negative. I did antibodies test for herpes at 7 weeks and was negative.
I am waiting to re-do the test at 12 weeks.
i am living in Qatar where Western Blot test isn't available.
All the symptoms that I have mentioned still persist until now (after 9 weeks).