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((: This is amazing. I am glad to read this.. Because those feelings come and go. When you can find someone to accept you it is the most amazing feeling in the world. This doesn't change who we are. We are still the people we were before !

My doctor immediately handing me a 5 page pamphlet about this when I was newly diagnosed. I thought every doctor did that. If they don't we should get them too (: definitely.

I have been finding others to interview also ! (: I feel like if we can hear other peoples stories, and know that we are in this togheter. Well that is the best feeling ever !

You should do it face to face hon.. It is the best way for things to go the way you want it. When you can show your body language and you can show that you are positive.. Then he will see it. Most likely he will be okay with it also. I do not advise phone calls, texting, notes. Become the bull and charge to him and talk like you mean it.. But another piece of advice. Don't talk to him about it until you are ready.. (: It will make things a lot better.. Stay abstinent with him until you are absolutely positively ready to disclose. (:

I am !

&& I rememeber they had this post that said " New bring your H- partners here." So I think yes they can !

@Bookworm21 you hear me talk about my boyfriend all the time ! So no I am not tired of it. (:

@Honeydukes Hello and welcome. First off you came to a good place.. (: We became a good big family. Breathe, whoosaaa. You will be alright. && I know it is annoying, those suckers can come out of no where, but I am glad to tell you that your future is not ruined. It is okay to feel the way you are feeling right now. I did, Adrial did. We all did, but you are not damaged goods! The only thing that is going to happen is sometimes you are going to be discomfortable.. I promise you will be fine. Like Adrial said before me.. Recognize those feelings. Ask yourself those important questions.. For me I kept telling myself " I am a dirty whore.." Finally I asked, am I really a dirty whore? My gut told me no. My mind wanted to tell me yes. That is because of what society has made this out to be. Such a terrible thing.. But its really not. You will be able to have a loving family still, and be there for your family. Just like you were before. It won't effect anything in life. Sometimes your little friends will come out for a visit, but you can really really learn to cope with them. (: Since he already has HSV-1 orally he already has the antibodies for them in his body.. Meaning his body can fight them off in other parts. ((: Have a great day and remember to keep your head up and it's not as bad as it seems !

I really really love this. (: I am so glad when I heard about this. He did the research and that is good. It is good do do the research even if you do not have the virus yourself. It helps you become more understanding.. A lot of the stigma comes from not being uneducated ! He is obviously a good catch. (: You can look up on the CDC... I remember that was where my boyfriend got a lot of his information.. From the Center for Disease Control. && there was a big packed that my doctor sent me through the mail ALL ABOUT HERPES.. Maybe I can forward it to you also. <3 Good job love !

@cyreye never ever ever. (: Someday's I just need someone to talk about it also.. I was diagnosed a week before my 20th birthday.

I agree. Reminds me of middle school. Will you date me ? Check yes or no ? It's easy for someone to say no, but I feel as if they are actually face to face to what they really have, then it is easier to think the situation through !

I read this in my email earlier. @whatsallthehubbub .. You made my day and made me laugh !

((: Yes keep us posted. I am really glad you are doing better.

Oh I know.... I just didn't know it was all publicly funded..

Dont forget bacterial vaginosis

So its crazy to see cause that is where my lab work goes

That is crazy mine was positive from the u of washington also!

I am reading more about it and your right doesn't look like other vaccines

Well if there is other things I would lile to know I trust my doctor he has helped me put so much :) but if there is other info I would le to know. So hard to reply mobile

If you toucb the infected area and dont wash your hands and end up rubbing your eyes you can transfer it to your eyes.

I wasn't very good at washing my hands and I have a bad habit of rubbing my eyes.

Okay.. let me tell you something. If you touch somewhere that is infected and then rub your eyes.. It can infect your eyes..

I just opened up to one of my really good friends today.. She told me about CH.. and I told her that she should really get tested AND make sure to ask for everything including herpes, and all the others. She gave me a hug and said thanks for sharing, because I would have never known to ask for that stuff. (: I love that girl !

Lmao. ! I still watch spongebob.