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  1. I'm mad as Hell! I'm in constant discomfort and why? My 'giver' was a RN nurse. Trained in infectious disease. Took the hippocratic oath - do no more harm! She decided for me that I'd be ok without giving me a chance to decide for myself. As we dated we talked about herpes twice. She had several opportunities to disclose and it wasnt in the heat of the moment. First time we sleep together I show symptoms she discoses she has ohsv1. Then she turns into a bitch and gets mad at me for showing symptoms and blocks me on everything. Acting like a guilty person that already knows whats coming. Thinking back i remember a lot of things she said/did that didnt make sense at the time. Like she wants a gun because she's affraid someone is going to break into her house and hurt her. If you're doing this to people i now understand. Another thing is she liked to chew on my lip and lick my gums, for hours, it was so odd and not that enjoyable. I took it for playful oddness. Now I wonder if she was trying to gaurantee infection? I want some answers from her!
  2. I was tested at 3mo and 9mo after intercourse. Thats not the question tho. I read about all these people testing neg on the IgG. Has anyone infected their partner(s) while negative with no psyical symptoms? Everyone on this forum contracted H. I believe most partners don't want to hurt and probably felt they were not contagous but here we are.... this is why we are here, no one will talk about it, no one discloses, and then they avoid. If you' re only experiencing internal nerve symptoms are you sheding virus? Someone has experice with this.
  3. Comes and goes throught the day. It can feel like i have a mild sunburn on the inside or back of the thigh. Sometimes a prickly feeling. It can last days to only 30 min. Same with my lip. I feel tingling and then i start looking every 15min in the mirror and find a bump forming. I had a zit once and I was going to get swabed but a friend talked me out of it, they think im a hypo. So far abreva seems to nip it in the bud and knock it down and goes away within a day most times. The leg pain seems to show up almost every day in varying degree. Another question is i never seem to wake in the morning with leg pain. Always comes on after im awake?
  4. I've never had a out break and my IgG keeps coming back negative. My Dr. tells me I 'technically' dont have hsv and I should get counseling. I'm almost positive I have it but because i keep testing negative my family support doesnt believe me too. Im suffering from left leg nerve pain and lip pain that showed up right after sex. I dont want to hurt anyone. I dont want to do what was done to me. The person i was with refuse to talk. If i test negative and have no outbreaks am i infectious? You dont just go around telling dates you're hsv positve without proof. Seems the only way to know for sure is if it happens to your mate, and that is aweful. Help me with this please.
  5. My back story: I was dating this nurse for about a month. We had the infectious disease talk 2 times before we were intimate. I was confident her being a health profesional I was ok. She said she was clean. Then my lips started experiencing pain. She then tells me she gets fever blisters. I questioned her that she said she didn't have any diseases. I called it Hsv and she instantly got super defensive and said I'm offensive and won't talk now. that was that and she won't respond to any questions now. now, I'm fighting lip pains almost every day several times a day. I never get a text book 'out break', so my doctor can't swab it. Its just pain, redness, and swelling every 2 days. It starts to look like its going to break out then it goes away every time so far. After about a month my inner thighs started feeling like they are sun burnt. Most of the time it's in my left leg but it moves around. My leg pain is not severe just annoying. Now it's changing to a prickly feeling. My lip pain and leg pain seem to both happen at the same time. I've noticed it's good in the morning and bothers me as I get tired throughout the day. The odd thing is it can come on within minutes and last hours or just minutes then go away. Is that common for herpes? It seems odd to me. Is it common for lip hsv1 to constantly cause pain? It's there every day on and off keeping my mind on it. I need some relief before I go crazy. Its been 12 weeks so I had a sti and IgG test done. Everything came back negative although I don't believe the IgG test. I plan on another IgG test @ 6mo. My doctor also tried putting me on Valtrex for 2 weeks to see if it helped but I couldn't tell if it made a difference. He said since I have not had a official out break and I'm negative I don't have herpes. How do you explain the herpes like pains that showed up right after intercourse then? That's the mindset that got me here, and I can't hurt anyone and play dumb when I know something is going on. I've also been insulted by several telling me my symptoms don't match herpes and I should see a psychologist. I Googled my symptoms and it brought me right to this forum. Please help.
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