Tryingtokeepgoing

I am not diagnosed, but had a pretty clear but mild outbreak on the base of my shaft and it went away before I could see a doctor for a swab. I'm just worried that I may have exposed myself to hsv2 orally during the same encounter am wondering if the shedding risk is higher during a primary genital outbreak. I know there are a lot of question marks. I guess I need to wait some time for a blood test with no outbreak.

Hello, I'm new here. I've recently had what I believe is my first genital OB. Four days after a couple days after protected sex I began to have some blistering. The next day I had my daughter for the day and gave her a couple hello kisses on the mouth and cheek. I have not had an oral outbreak and it has been 18 days. But I'm very concerned because from what reading I have done oral HSV2 can shed a lot during a primary genital outbreak if there is also an oral infection that is asymptomatic. Sorry for the long post. My life would just be over if I gave this to her. Just looking for advice/discussion or anything really. Thanks