Lisha80

Hello! I am new to this group but I just needed some advice on when to have the herpes talk. I am currently in a long distrance relationship. I was married to a man who cheated on me the whole 9 years we were married and I contracted herpes from him. I met my current boyfriend about 3 months ago and we decided to become exclusive a month ago. We have not had sex. He lives about 7 hours away and for the last 2 months, we've only seen each other 3 full weekends. I'm supposed to fly and visit him in about 3 weeks, but I really feel the need to disclose the fact that I have herpes. Should I do this over the phone, or should I wait until I visit? I think my greatest fear is being rejected, yet having to spend the rest of the weekend with him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.