Okay so my name is James Smith. i am 20 years old. i wrestled for 13 years, and in doing so i met a good person, and great girl (she was at that point in time at least) ... Needless to say, we went on our separate ways and lived our own lives.
after i dated her i met my ex of 3 years, and she lived quite a distance away from where i live so i was never at home so i had no way of keeping in touch of what went on in everyone's life. well eventually me and my ex broke up and i ran into her again, she was NOT the same at all, she fell hard to drugs, and in doing so lost her kid. and i guess for you to try and understand you have to know that my dad died when i was 3, and i have never had a father figure. i know it was not my business to try and help her get her kid back, but she was a great person once, and everyone had turned their back's on her. but i couldnt, i don't know why, im by far no great guy, i just wanted to at least try for her sake because i knew what her kid would feel since i have had to live that life.
Anyways, there i was trying to juggle her addiction, paying bills, living on my own for the first time, and still trying to help her get her child back. i ran myself into the ground, hard. but one morning i woke up and noticed a bump after we engaged in intercourse the night before, and i was a little confused to say the least. i had asked her several times if she had anything and she always answered "no" and i dont know why but i believed her.
well, one night my cousin came up to me and told me the story. she had cheated on me, caught HSV 2, and decided not to tell me, and sleep with me on purpose knowing she had an outbreak. i immediately went to the doctor (not even going in to ask her or tell her where i was going) and i told them to test me for everything under the sun.
sure enough a couple days later the test results came back and i had HSV 2. but by then i had already known it. i endured about 30 genital lesions, so i went to my family doctor, the free clinic, the emergency care center, all of them told me i had it, and each gave me medicine for it, i got acyclovir, creams, you name it. but all in all my first outbreak lasted for NINE MONTHS and i was in more pain that i thought was possible.
i have not had an outbreak since, but the first one was bad enough, and i have yet to be able to tell someone i have HSV 2, without them vanishing from my life. i have lost so much to this disease. i am extremely family oriented and its so hard that i cant even get a girl to give me a chance because i tell them i have HSV 2 every single time.
you see, im in that persons shoes that doesnt get told.. and i could NEVER EVER do that to someone.. id rather die. i will never hide i have this , but i dont understad how i can get someone to give me a chance; yes i have it and always will, but i am more than just a vessel with herpes, i am still a good person. But the longer i go down the road the more i feel like giving up.
If ANYONE has any suggestions for me or words of wisdom please, please share them.