Melanie

Wow! Was this individual upset because you were actively searching elsewhere as well?

Wow not to hijack this thread but this just made me feel much better!

Hello everyone! I was diagnosed a couple of months ago and I'm still in somewhat of awe. Somedays are better than others... And somedays I'm ok. I'm supporting myself no support from anyone else... I haven't confided in others at all. I would love to have a buddy in the Killeen area preferably female possibly military as well. Thank You!

It is I celebrated my 29th birthday this past Sunday with my partner and our kids and I enjoyed myself. I guess I've reached this point because I know that I wasn't the "cause" of me contracting herpes . Also I've been researching this disease and knowing that this is basically a skin-to-skin condition makes me feel better and knowing that it doesn't alter my abilities to have children is a blessing in its own right!

You know what's weird??? It's like I've completely accepted having herpes.... I haven't cried I haven't worried about my love life it's. Its a great feeling....

You know what's weird??? It's like I've completely accepted having herpes.... I haven't cried I haven't worried about my love life it's. Its a great feeling....

I'm so happy I've found this forum.... :)

We're just ok right now but we're still together..... He admits that he may have been dumb in his past be he has reassured me that he isn't going anywhere.

Yea I even through the "it's better not knowing stage" but I couldn't go on like is. It wouldn't have been fair to him or our love between us... He's going to get tested he tried today but I was called back into work. Y'all I love this man so much and it's like he understands that I could have gotten it years ago and am just now having an outbreak. We're going to chat tonight and I'm going to apologize for the way I came at him this morning. I don't want him to think that I was blaming him but of course we all have those questions that we feel needs to be answered. Throughout this day my spirits have gotten better earlier today I couldn't even function and to be honest it was because I was so caught in this stigma will ruin my life my relationship and possibly becoming a mother again. But then I had to think.... At least it isn't HIV or AIDS! I can go on with my life it may be uncomfortable at times but at least it's not "a death sentence" per sè. Thanks everyone

This thread has helped me out a lot

Well I went to the doctor this morning and off the bat he said it looked like herpes....he took a sample and prescribed me Valtrex. I feel so ugh.... I called my boyfriend and he's not upset but he's in shock. I can honestly say that my delivery was wrong I asked did he have unprotected sex with anyone besides one person that I know of he said no. He says as of now that he's not leaving me.... But we'll see. He said that I could've had it for years without knowing and he's right. I just recently divorced and my husband was out there so there is no telling.... I love this man so much but I honestly feel like our relationship will never be the same... I love him with everything in me. Ughhhh

Ok so I have this blisters right underneath my butt cheek. I've been researching all night and one of the symptoms of an H breakout is pain and flu like symptoms I have not experienced any of this has anyone experience an outbreak especially an initial where there was no pain or flu like symptoms?