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Carrieanna88

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  1. Your right whitedaises, he is lucky I didn't put him in jail and ruin his career.
  2. I would love one!!! I'm in Idaho but I'll take anyone from anywhere!!
  3. I appreciate both of your advice though. Definitely helped out things in perspective. I've dealt with abuse in the past myself and refuse to put my kids through it. I will say I am thankful he showed his true colors early in our "relationship" rather than later.
  4. I have 2 kids as well. I have full custody of both of them. So my dating life is almost non existent. When I do date it's definitely hard. Most of the time I think that its way easier alone. It took all my power not to freak out on him I just decided the best thing to do was break off all contact. I think the main issue that I have with all this is the fact I may have passed it on. Makes things better that if I did then it's to him, but I refuse to be one of those people that doesn't care if they pass it or not.
  5. Lol!! Maybe I'll try that. I'm feeling better about it. I won't say he deserves it because no one deserves it but regardless my child's safety as well as mine is way more important. Some days I'm fine being alone and others it sucks and having this just makes it worse. You can't trust anyone anymore and it definitely makes me wonder why he was so ok with me having it. Obviously he has problems.
  6. Thank you. I have not had contact with him at all and blocked him from everything. I just feel like ill never find anyone that is loving and accepting. I don't want to worry about passing this on to anyone. Ever.
  7. I don't really know where to begin but ill just go for it. This isn't a sympathy story I just need some real advice. Ok so I have been diagnosed with herpes for about 8 months. My first outbreak was one sore.. That's it.... My second 4 months later was not bad but way worse!!!!! Then I had another one a month after but just one blister again. Anyway that's not the reason for this discussion. A while ago I met a man that seemed very legit. He was a firefighter and seemed very decent. When I finally told her his response was "your an amazing woman" that night he came over and we had a few drinks and one thing led to another. I asked him to put on a condom and he insisted he was fine ( my stupidity I know ). After the fact he freaked a little so he promised that he would wear a condom from then on. I even told him I would be devastated if I passed it on to him. A bit longer into the relationship I started noticing things, like he drank a lot, he was very aggressive, those sort of things. Anyway one night he got rough with my daughter! I noticed what was happening and grabbed her and got out of there as fast as I could!! How dare he!!! I stopped talking to him, cut off contact and everything. Then one night he emailed me and said he still had my shoes. I ignored it but the next day and tried to get them. He Lied and said he didn't have them... It doesn't really matter... But after I left he started writing me telling me that I have him herpes!!! I broke and have been totally depressed about that. Most of my friends are telling me that he is probably just saying that to get to me.. He is stalker status, called my work a bunch of times all that fun stuff.... And other friends who also have it are telling me that even if I did that I shouldn't feel bad because he hurt my kid and that I TOLD him and it was his choice. But I do feel bad!!! I feel worse thinking I might of passed it on than I did when I got it!!!
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