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  1. I have had it for 20+ yrs and can tell you that as long as you live fairly healthy, outbreaks will get less severe and less often after about one year (sooner if you really commit to a healthy happy lifestyle including organic food and natural supplements, vitamins and L-Lysine). Until then suppressive therapy might be a good idea for you. There are natural supressives too. PLEASE don't isolate yourself, confide in your best friend and know that it is actually unusual for someone NOT to have it! YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE ALONE FOREVER, I once thought that as well but i have a beautiful new girl now ;) StRESS AND DEPRESSION MAKE IT WORSE!! so it's very important to be as positive as possible (lol, but don't stress on that). Hang in there bro, it gets better! You are younger than you think. By living a healthy lifestyle , i haven't had break outs in over 4 yrs and that last one was nothing! AS WELL THE ONE THE 2 YRS BEFORE THAT ONE ;) & DO NOT GET THE FLUE SHOT... IT LOWERS THE IMUNE SYSTEM NO MATTER WHAT DOCTORS SAY ABOUT THAT!!! everyone i know who gets the flu shot gets the flu cause it's in the shot. Naturally boosting the immune system fights off the flu better than stupid antibodies. antibodies are for deadly snake bites not general health. any time you feal a cold or flu coming on stop it imediately w/ elderberry syrup. which blows doors on Tamiflu!! (pharmasutical companies won't tell you that because they can't patent & make money on natural remedies) the less colds you have the less outbreaks. Hang in there bro !!
  2. Thank you both very much!! now it's my turn to support someone w/ my experience !! :) LOve you !!!
  3. Did it! . She was like, ''yeah? so? they have condoms and stuff... i still like you., nothings has changed'' she's so amazing!!
  4. I am male. I got the virus when i was 21. I'm now 44 & have very few outbreaks. it's been at least over a year and a half since my last one. I take a ton of vitamins and eat only organic/non GMO foods. Here's my dilemma...I haven't been w/ anyone for a long time for various reasons one of which is the virus. I wasn't planning on meeting the most awesome woman in the world (to me). Now i'm not saying that because i was alone for so long, trust me , she's different from ALL other women i've known. Intelligent, sensitive (like me thus understanding of my sensitivity), non conceded non self centered, non financially bias, you name it... We haven't had sex yet but it's getting close. It's wednesday night & we're going out on friday night. [bTW, I haven't gotten the book yet] Tonight's good night kiss was HOT! I know i have to disclose & the sooner the better but i'm worried about timing. Do i tell her tomorrow , or after we get back to her place after the show and have to stop what might start, then either disclose right then or the next day after i refuse sex and make her wonder why. I know that most are worried about the possibility of dating in general but I'm worried about the possibility of being w/ this particular woman because i really really like her a lot. This is really bumming me out. She IS pretty mature, from europe (i'm american, we're in US) & at least the same age as me ( i think she's a little older actually ) . She was once a nurse, she takes care of animals & she admits to being sensitive so i have a feeling that she will understand but... I am worried that she might get mad that i didn't tell her sooner even though we've only met a short time ago (a couple weeks ago & seen each other a small handful of times but i THINK we are already feeling close). The other night she disclosed what she thought was ''some dirt on her'' it was nothing really at all; she was married once, had a gum transplant; (she's beautiful, would have never guessed). Really nothing... is that cute or what? god i really like this girl, so anyway... she then said ''so, i just gave you some dirt no me, now it's your turn''. We hadn't yet had a hot kiss like tonight, where you can feel the blood rushing through each others bodies, so i picked some other dirt to tell her... Ok, that's kind of an excuse, i was putting it off because i wasn't comfortable and i was afraid of scaring her away. She was glad that i said 'I don't believe our past defines us' she also said that i have to be patient w/ her and doesn't want to rush it. I think that means she likes me... And now i'm worried that she might get mad because i gave her time to get to like me and ... man, this is really bumming me out. I always thought that if i get back into a sex life that I would just have a sex opportunity here and there and i would disclose like a responsible adult and have or not have sex but i never planned on meeting the most awesome woman in the world. Damn!!
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