bigmoreno - you just have to tell her. I know how it feels, but it's seriously all in your head. If you are going to just break up with her anyway, why not tell her?
Think about it this way, if you had a cold sore on your mouth once when you were 5 yrs old, would you freak out about telling her? I made the analogy that it's the same thing when disclosing. Not carried in blood, semen or anything else. It's considered an STD because of the inconvenient place it shows up. We're not even using condoms anymore. She just said she trusts me to stay on top of my valtrex usage, listen my body, and that she's willing to take the risk. (but also, I have a major problem breaking condoms, it happens almost every time, and it's not because i put them on incorrectly). Just act like it's not that big of a deal. This girl is std-free (showed me a sheet from her doc including hsv blood tests for both 1 and 2), and has been having sex with me raw and giving me blowjobs. We had sex 4 times yesterday, if she likes you, it's not going to change her mind and she's prob not gonna care. If you think her interest level is high, and you like her too, just tell her!! Breaking it off with a woman who likes you, because you have herpes is really unfair to yourself.
Kilo - no problem man. That's why I put this up there, the vast majority of disclosures I read online were from women. Wasn't even two weeks when I told her, but she was literally trying to rip my clothes off whenever I saw her, so I couldn't delay it any longer..lol.
Thanks for the pats on the back everyone.
It's not as hard as you think; It only takes a sentence or two. I seriously have been having more sex with her on a daily basis than I ever had with a GF pre-herpes.