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  1. I'm thankful for being able to talk and get support with people on this site. Because of this site I've been able to tell my kids and not be in fear of what they think. They all were very understanding and my daughter actually was mad I hadn't told her earlier because she would have been more careful out there. I guess sometimes things that at first look bad are actually gifts not only to ourselves but to others. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
  2. Lelani: thanks for the words of encouragement. I have to laugh also, I guess all of humans are wired the same way.
  3. Thank you again for your support. Now I have to have a normal relationship that's probably harder. Everyone thank you.
  4. WD: I feel for you. I was lucky. I went on 4 great dates each lasting over 6 hours and I knew had to disclose soon for fear of getting to close and getting hurt worse. It was a process of getting to know the person and digging a little. She had told me on the 3rd date she wasn't afraid of sickness but of someone hurting her. I knew it was maybe a 50/50 shot at that point. I was going to disclose on the 4th date but I wasn't sure and the time wasn't right ( we went to a arts fair with a lot of people around and then came to my house and my son was home). This last date we went to church and then went hiking where we alone. Everything turned out great. I think a lot of it has to do with timing and and getting to know how a person feels about different things. The more you explore about the person the better and sometimes that takes time. We have to be a little more selective then most people but look at the amount of everyday relationships that go by the way side. I know you have that thing hanging over your head and keep thinking when when and you want to get it out there. When you get that feel about that person and then you can make that choice. Never stop trying, enjoy dating and know that you are an honest beautiful person that is loved.
  5. Just wanted to let everyone know I had the talk today. I waited for one more date to make sure I felt right and to gauge if I wanted to open myself to this person. It was a long week constantly practicing , worrying ,not sleeping, work was a joke, and just making that decision. Went to church with her and then we went hiking in the mountains of So. CA. We were alone so I started the talk and was positive about what it was all about. I knew she had some medical background but found out she was Hep C positive and was alright with my condition. WOW!! This is one of best days I have ever had. Thank you guys for your support I don't think I could of done it without you.
  6. Hey I'm John and I talked with Adrial couple of weeks ago about the talk. Thanks buddy. I have been going slow with this woman and now it will the 4th date. Now is the point I will have say something because I'm afraid if don't do it it will hurt to much to get the rejection. Just hoping I've got the guts to do this. Live in Rancho Cucamonga 59 next month never thought I'd be out dating again. I've had it for 38 years and was never an issue while being married. Just wanted to post to hi.
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