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  1. Thank you both for your advice. I told him already and am now waiting to see how he handles it. I am sorry to hear that Bambino3. Good luck with your disclosure *hug*
  2. Hello, I disclosed to the guy I have been seeing 2 nights ago. He took it well and has been fine since. We both are very busy (he's a full-time student in his last year and part-time dad and I work 2 jobs) and haven't seen each other since I disclosed. After I disclosed, he stayed physically present (touch is very powerful to me) and asked questions, mainly about HSV-1 (which I don't have) and how he wouldn't get HSV-2. I told him I was on Valtrex and as long as we used condoms and dental dams, he had a very slim chance of catching it. He said his sister and 2 children had H (I didn
  3. Hi 2Legit2Quit, Thanks for the advice. However I have already told him. He took it well and I felt supported during the telling. I usually don't tell people I have met but I just couldn't in good conscience keep going without telling him. It just felt like I was hiding a huge part of who I am from him. I don't know if I did the right thing or not but at least I can know I let him know. How long would one usually wait..3 weeks, 1 or 2 months? I don't know how to go that long without disclosing. I feel as though it is always there, sitting in the back of my mind, a third person tr
  4. Thank you so much for sharing! What a great story and a wonderful conclusion.
  5. Hi, I have been seeing this guy for about 2 weeks. We have been on 6 dates, each about 4-12 hours long. He is kind, supportive, and thinks I am amazing. I am starting to fall for him and am going to disclose to him tomorrow (Sat) night on our 7th date before I get too attached. I am so scared he isn't going to be brave enough to handle this. We had been talking on one of our dates and he mentioned that one of his deal breakers was STDs or sickness. When I was quiet in response, he qualified with well it does depend on the person. So based on that statement, I am so scared he is
  6. Thank you all so much for the love and support!!! It feels so nice to have finally found somewhere that understands what this is like AND to find others who have gone through similar, if I may, horrors. The guy who gave me this....it just kills me he is still around. And dating. We met online and there has been a part of me that wants to warn all the women...I know he is dating as I live in an incredibly small community...and if it werent for the fact he has two daughters (who I fell more in love with than with him), I probably would have made a bigger deal. The worst par
  7. Hello, My herpes story...just typing those words makes me cringe inside. I had been married for about 9 years, divorced when he decided he didn't want to have kids. After that, I would only date guys who said they wanted to have kids. About 3 years later, (April 2013) I met the man who would change my life forever. He said he wanted to have kids. He lied and gave me herpes instead. He didn't tell me he had it and had unprotected sex with me. When I developed what I thougth was a yeast infection or a ingrown hair a week later and I told him I was going to go to the doctor to get med
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