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  1. Why? Why do you feel like a fraud? Just for simply moving on? Having herpes doesn't mean you dont deserve to be happy. I mean I def understand the feeling but just think of it this way. You have to meet ppl, get to know them to see if you guys even fit eachother before disclosing and letting them know. I get that feelinh sometimes too then i remind myself that I'm overreacting.
  2. I realize this post doesn't relate to everyone and thats actually a good thing but my original thought of the post was aimed more towards actually speaking not typing.....but @Robyn_ Im happy you could relate...i think about this post and i laugh again just reading it like "why the heck am i scared of a word?"
  3. I loves reading this and I want to say thank you and I'm happy you learned from this! :)
  4. Ok cool I've had herpes for years so that shouldn't bey problem I just need to find a very experienced peircer (im still looking) and make an appointment with my Ob/gyn :) thanks for your response
  5. Omg that is so funny!!!! Lol I'm so happy for you though!!!
  6. Ok so I want to get my clitoral hood pierced (not the actual clitoris) and I was wondering if this would be a bad idea due to the fact that I have herpes (obviously because I'm on this cite right? Lol :). I'm thinking I should be ok because when I do have outbreaks they aren't anywhere close to my clitoris so it shouldn't affect anything ...but I'm not sure and idk anybody who has this piercing and has genital herpes...
  7. Are the meds bad? I was thinking of using.... I've never taken any medication...where would I get neem from? Also what are the side effects of meds?
  8. I have to admit I was definitely on the verge of tears a min ago and not saying that this article fixed evrything ik its up to me to change the way i feel about myslef but reading it def makes me feel a little better and it makes a lot of good points so thank you :) @wcsdancer2010 ...
  9. I did not mean to post that three times my phone is stupid... Sorry
  10. I really can't give you any advice I'm in the same stage as you I did my first disclosure about 2weeks ago and I just want you to know that I was rejected to so ik and understand how you feel so if you need someone to talk to I'm here :) ...it makes me feel really bad too and a lot of time all I wanna do is sleep now I dont have energy for absolutely anything anymore but what usually helps me is talking about it with ppl on here and also forcing myself out of the house and doing some yoga ...also some days are worse than others not everyday is gonna be a bad day but time will heal it (as cliche as that sounds ..its true)
  11. I really can't give you any advice I'm in the same stage as you I did my first disclosure about 2weeks ago and I just want you to know that I was rejected to so ik and understand how you feel so if you need someone to talk to I'm here :) ...it makes me feel really bad too and a lot of time all I wanna do is sleep now I dont have energy for absolutely anything anymore but what usually helps me is talking about it with ppl on here and also forcing myself out of the house and doing some yoga ...also some days are worse than others not everyday is gonna be a bad day but time will heal it (as cliche as that sounds ..its true)
  12. @lot250 I love harry potter and I love your reference to voldemort <3 ...but I agree with seeker saying it more and more seems to help me
  13. Lets just call it what it is ...Herpes! Let's all just say it ...I feel like calling it "h" is just letting us avoid the problem a little longer... We have herpes and you know what ?I realized that I'm actually scared to say the word ...I hardly ever say it out loud and I've disclosed to 3ppl I wrote it down every time ...I actually have been practicing saying it out loud to my self and I can't help but whisper it lol its actually funny now that I think about it because me avoiding the word is not going to make it less prominent ....So yea I have herpes but I'm also beautiful and smart and I have a freaking AMAZING personality and whose not gonna love me for that?...excuse my rambling but I feel a breakthrough coming on ...you know I've been hiding this for 5years and trying to hide it from myslef too but enough it enough... People are still gonna love me and people are still gonna love you so if your reading this I hope that if you haven't that you can accept yourself for who you are and see that you are not herpes and herpes is not you ...we still deserve to be happy and idk about you but I'm ready to go out and get it ...it's not gonna come us you know
  14. Just did a little yoga and I have to say u missed it much I used to do it everyday.... I have to get back to that place :)
  15. I'm happy I read this because I have been falling back into a really bad depression but this is very inspirational and makes me realize that I'm responsible for my mental state and can do things to help myself feel better ....maybe I dont need a guy to do that for me...so thank you :)
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